Monday, March 26, 2018

Blessed By a Gift


For the past few months, we’ve been doing a language exchange with a local family.  For me, this means meeting once or twice a week with a girl around my age and her middle-aged aunt to help them with their English and then practice speaking Arabic.
 
In some ways, these meetings have been a huge encouragement.  Besides getting to practice Arabic in a nonthreatening, conversational environment, this opportunity finally allows me to build relationships with locals, which has been my desire from the start. 

In other ways, though, it’s frustrating.  The little bit of English help and practice that I provide really isn’t changing their lives, and my Arabic is still not quite at the level to have very deep conversations.  Although I love hearing the women’s perspectives on life here, their views of Muslim/Christian relationships, and their frustrations with their own culture, it is difficult for me to direct the conversation or to really discern where they’re at spiritually.  They are Christians from Orthodox backgrounds, and “being Christian” is clearly an important part of their lives, but it’s hard to tell how much of that comes from true faith and how much is just culture, society, and family.  So at times, though I enjoy meeting with them, I feel like it’s not particularly fruitful.

This week, however, I was encouraged when my two friends surprised me with a gift.  I was touched, not just because they thought of me and wanted to express appreciation for our meetings together, but because each of the items they included showed that these two women had been soaking in everything I’ve said over the past few weeks.  Their gift showed that they had listened to (and remembered) everything from my favorite color to how important my faith is to me.  They hadn’t just picked up random, generic items at a store.  They had clearly chosen each item for a specific reason: a pink and blue scarf because I once mentioned that I love bright colors, several nail polishes because we’ve discussed how I like to paint my own nails instead of going to the salon (which is common for women here), lots of chocolate because in our food lesson I talked about loving sweets, and a cross bracelet.  Plus, they gave me a mug embossed with a scripture (the one about salt and light) and my name, all in Arabic, so I can continue to practice reading in Arabic.
 
I was encouraged because I loved everything about their gift and because I know that, if they listened to and remembered all those little details about chocolate and my favorite colors, surely all of my comments about the Lord, the Word, and what it means to follow Jesus are tucked away somewhere in their hearts/minds.  And I think if they have gotten to know me well enough to know what I like (despite my still-developing language skills), surely they must also be seeing what I care about, what matters to me, and how I try to live.  Hopefully these things will inspire them to pursue more personal relationships with the Lord.  In sha Allah.*


 *In sha Allah is a phrase commonly used in Arabic that means "Lord willing."  It is typically used when talking about anything in the future, from what you plan to do tomorrow to what you hope will happen years down the road.

Monday, February 5, 2018

Fourth Time's A Charm


I couldn’t pass her by again.  The first time we walked past her, I felt pity and realized it had been months since I’d seen someone begging on the street.  The second time, I felt conviction.  I was with a whole bunch of people attending a Christian conference.  Why were none of us stopping for her?  The third time, I was on a run.  I saw her on the way out to the pier, and I knew that I would have to pass her again to get back to the hotel.   At that moment, I committed to stop for her on the way back.  I just couldn’t pretend she wasn’t there a fourth time.  
I spent the next part of the run worrying.  What was I going to say?  I didn’t have any money with me, and it was likely that she wouldn’t even speak English.  How awkward would that be?  Before I had time to answer any of these questions, I had turned around and was approaching the spot on the boardwalk where she was sitting, strumming her guitar but not really playing any chords.  So I went for it.
“Hi, do you speak English?” I asked.
“Yes, I do,” she answered.  She had an accent, but it wasn’t too strong.
Hoping my sigh of relief wasn’t loud enough to be noticeable, I told her that I didn’t have any money but that I’d love to sit and talk with her for a bit.  She consented and proceeded to tell me her name (Evelina) and a bit of her background.  She told me that she was born in Bulgaria but had been living in Cyprus for a while now.  She expressed that it’s hard to find work in Cyprus during off-season when there aren’t many tourists.  
For the most part, I could understand her, but occasionally she turned her head to the side, which allowed the waves crashing against the boardwalk to drown out the sound of her voice.  Though part of me wanted to ask her to repeat the phrases I missed, she seemed so happy just to talk to someone that I didn’t want to interrupt.  
            Hoping to share some truth with her, I gestured to the book sitting by her guitar.  It was written in an unfamiliar language but appeared to be a Bible, or maybe a Book of Mormon since I had seen a few pairs of Mormons out witnessing that day. 
“What are you reading?” I asked her. 
“The Bible,” she replied.  She explained that it was written in her language and that she hoped God would help her find a job.  Seeing the opportunity, I asked if I could pray for her right then.  Though she was clearly caught off guard, she agreed.  And although she looked around throughout the prayer, clearly feeling a little awkward to be praying on the side of the boardwalk as people walked by, I think she appreciated the gesture.  
Afterwards, we talked some more before I headed back to the hotel for dinner.  On the run back, I questioned myself a lot.  Should I have outlined the Gospel for her?  Or asked more about what she believed?  Or prayed more specifically?
Perhaps I should have, but now I just have to trust that the Lord can use the words that I did manage to say.  Maybe she just needed someone to listen and care.  Maybe someday when she does find work, she’ll look back and remember our prayer on the boardwalk.  Regardless, the next time I see someone on the street with a cup of change, I hope to remember Evelina and stop…the first time. 




Sunday, January 14, 2018

A Hiker's Guide to Petra (and Little Petra)

           
            My husband and I love nature and hiking but don’t love crowds or tourist traps.  For this reason, we weren’t sure how much we would like Petra.  However, we had a fantastic experience!  Because we weren’t able to find many resources on hiking trails in or around Petra, we want to share some information to help others plan their Petra trips.  The goal of our itinerary was to enjoy as much of the natural and historical beauty of Petra as possible while minimizing the busy/stressful/touristy feel.  So if that’s the kind of trip you’re look for, read on!

The first thing we did right was planning our trip during Petra’s off season.  We went in early January and felt that this was perfect.  It was chilly (40 degrees in the morning with highs around 55) but still sunny and nice.  And because it was winter, it really wasn’t crowded at all.  The only problem with this time of year is the possibility of rain.  Our drive up the night before was quite nasty due to fog and rain, and it would have been tricky if we’d planned our trip for a day earlier. 

Anyway, we arrived in Wadi Musa the night before and stayed at the Cleopetra Hotel.  It was a budget hotel, for sure, but we had a good experience there.  We had a clean room with hot water, heat, and breakfast included for a great price.  Plus, the people running it were very helpful and nice.  



Part 1: Petra through the Main Entrance

The next morning, we bought our tickets from the Visitor’s Center at 6:30am, right as the sun was coming up.  I highly recommend this!  Personally, we find that crowds of tourists detract from the overall experience, so having many of the trails to ourselves between 7 and 10 was totally worth the early morning!  Our one mistake in buying tickets was forgetting to ask the man to use JD on our credit card.  He charged it in dollars, which added a hefty fee to our already expensive tickets.   

Anyway, the walk from the entrance of Petra to the first major site, the Treasury, was very straightforward.  We passed the stalls of horses (which we had been warned about; though they are advertised as free, a large tip is required afterwards) and then came to the entrance of the Siq.  The Siq is a narrow gorge and is very interesting to look at due to the interesting rock coloration, carvings, and ancient drainage systems.  At the end of the Siq, about 1.7miles from the entrance to Petra, is the Treasury, which is totally amazing, but also swarming with Bedouins trying to sell things and tourists trying to take pictures (especially later in the day- another reason to go early!).

After enjoying the Treasury for a few minutes, we turned right and went past a few tombs and vendor stalls.  Shortly after (about 1000ft), we turned left at the sign pointing up the stairs to the High Place of Sacrifice.  This trail was one of the highlights of our trip!  The stairs going up are beautiful and offer great views of the rocks below.  There are quite a few stairs and switchbacks and also some trinket stands which become more frequent as you climb.  

When we did this trail, we only passed two other tourists and it was early enough that people were not out at their stands yet.  This made it so peaceful and enjoyable!  The only disturbance was a number of cats that were very persistent in following us and meowing loudly for food.  After 0.7miles, we reached a fork with a sign for the High Place of Sacrifice.  We took the right turn for a short climb to an area with large rocks and outstanding panoramic views of the region as well as the actual High Place of Sacrifice.  



Next, we returned to the fork and went the other direction to continue on the High Place of Sacrifice Trail.  The next mile or so was stunning.  The trail zigzagged down the mountain passing beautiful rock formations, carved tombs, caves, and amazing viewpoints.  Because there were virtually no people on this trail, we felt a lot of freedom to explore (though we always stayed on the trail).  We went inside many of the tombs and even discovered a cave full of puppies!      



Eventually, we reached another fork.  The path to the right looked like it cut directly towards the Collonaded Street.  Despite the cool buildings in the distance on that path, we stayed left towards Qasr al Bint.  This ended up being a good call because we were able to see some carved buildings to our left that weren’t even labeled on the map.  Following the signs to Qasr al Bint, we eventually connected with the main path.  When we reached Qasr al Bint (an actual building as opposed to a carved rockface), we turned left to take the path up to the Monastery.

The Monastery Trail was 0.8miles each way and almost entirely steps.  Although it was still early (around 9am), there were many vendors on this trail, as well as Bedouins selling donkey rides up the steps.  The 730 steps were tough for sure, but definitely manageable.  Several people invited us to take a look at their souvenir tables, but we continued walking and didn’t find anyone to be overly persistent.  At the top of the stairs was the Monastery, which was similar to the Treasury, AMAZING.  There was a shop selling tea and snacks that also had several benches for people to enjoy the view while sipping tea or coffee.  Not wanting to buy anything, we sat on a rock instead to munch on a snack and rest for a while.  


After a short break, we headed back down the stairs.  But instead of turning back towards the HighPlace of Sacrifice, we went straight on the main trail.  After looking at some temple ruins on the right, we turned left to go up the hill and check out the Byzantine church.  The church had a mosaic floor and some other things to look at, but we didn’t stay long.

The trail in this area was less clear, so we took a random path that seemed to connect directly to the buildings on the Colonnaded Street.  We walked straight towards the most prominent buildings, which we couldn’t find on the map but later realized were the Royal Tombs.  After a bit of confusion about where we were, we followed the sign pointing left towards the Al-Khubtha Trail.  This trail is 1.1 miles each way and another steep climb.  After a lot of steps, we passed a little Bedouin rest area and a few signs indicating that a great view was ahead.

At the top of the mountain, we reached a fork with a sign.   To the right (just a minute past the sign) was a view of the Theater and Main Road of Petra.  To the left was a view of the Treasury from above.  This path was a little longer (maybe 10 minutes) and involved navigating around some rocks and following the Smiley Face signs for the view.  Eventually, we saw a Bedouin stall with a Jordan flag.  When we got over there, we found a wooden sign that said, “Best View” and “Get your Instagram here.”  This spot truly was the best view.  Though we walked a little past, there was nothing of interest further down the trail.  The view from above was cool, but a little scary (due to the height), and the Bedouins out there were very friendly and talked to us for a while, explaining how they live in caves and never went to school but learned English and other languages from all the tourists.  

After chatting with them for a while, we hiked back down the hill to the main road.  By this time (around 12:30), the main trail was more crowded with tourists and vendors.  We made our way past the Theater and eventually reached the place where we’d turned onto the High Place of Sacrifice Trail.  From here, we went straight, past the Treasury, through the Siq, and up the hill to the Visitor’s Center.  It was a perfect day!
 
Here’s the breakdown of our hike in Petra (distances are approximate):
-Entry to the High Place of Sacrifice Trail:  1.7miles
-High Place of Sacrifice Trail: 1.9miles
-Connection to the main trail via Qasr al Bint: very short
-Monastery Trail: 1.6miles
-Al-Khubtha Trail: 2.2 miles
-Main Trail Back: 2.5 miles
-Total: about 10miles, with lots of stair climbing
(all of these trails are shown on the map you receive there, but here's a picture of it)


We definitely recommend this itinerary if you like hiking and want to see all the best trails in just one day.  This whole route took us from about 6:30-2:30, with a decent amount of short breaks for snacks and pictures.  Although we could have stayed another 2 hours before dark, we decided to head back to the hotel and get some good rest for another hike the next day.

Part 2: Petra through the Back Door: Little Petra to Petra 

We had a lot less information on what to expect for this part of our Petra adventure.  We knew we wanted to hike into Petra through the back way, but we read mixed opinions online about where or not this could be done without a guide.  We had a fantastic experience with this hike, but want to share some information that would have been helpful to know beforehand.  

We started the day early again, leaving our hotel around 6:30.  Little Petra is about 15 minutes past Petra.  We drove our rental car, but supposedly you can also get a taxi there for 5-6JD.  When we arrived at Little Petra, we were immediately welcomed by a Bedouin who wanted to be our guide.  We declined his offer to guide us but were thankful that he pointed out the trail to us because there was no sign. If you are standing on the road in front of Little Petra facing the small area of shops, you take the road that goes directly left.  At first, we had no clue if we were going the right way.  There were quite a few barking dogs (that were honestly a little scary), and on our left was what seemed like a dried up creek.  Shortly past Little Petra, though, we noticed that there were rocks painted neon orange along the road.  When in doubt about which way to go, we followed the rocks.

The trail stayed along the road for about 30minutes.  At one point, we reached a Y with orange rocks going in both directions.  At first, we tried going right because that seemed to match the most with our Jordan Trail map (see end of post).  But the dogs in that direction seemed pretty aggressive, so we doubled back and went left.  This took us up the hill, and we were able to see that the other path probably would have connected anyway. 

We continued following the orange rocks, which then led left to skirt around a large ditch.  This part had less rocks and was more open and windy/desert-like.  After a few more minutes, we reached a metal sign indicating the path to the Monastery.  Relieved to finally be sure we were on the right path, we followed the sign (and the orange rocks) up the hill.

At this point, we reached a Tourist Police booth.  The man inside actually checked our Petra tickets.  Relieved that we had bought 2 day tickets, we drank the tea he gave us, and then continued on, now following the metal signs for the Monastery.  Eventually, we came to a point where it looked like we had to skirt around the edge of the mountain.  But just before we started climbing, we noticed that there were actually steps going down and around.

From this point on, the path was pretty clear.  There were many steps and stone walls going around the mountain, with beautiful views to the right.   


  
About 45 minutes from the tourist police booth, we reached a rocky hill with a sign pointing left.  We climbed up the hill and could finally see the top of the Monastery in the distance.  A few minutes later, we were there! Though we had just been there the day before, it was still an incredible sight to behold and perhaps even more gratifying, having come in the back way.  




After a break, we headed back the same way.  We saw a few more people going back (6 versus the 2 on the way in), but it still felt like we had the trail to ourselves.  The hike was roughly 4.4 miles (7km) each way, and we loved it.  It was a great way to enjoy the natural beauty of Petra in a quieter, less touristy fashion.  

Here are three different ways you could do this hike:

  1. Park at Little Petra, hike Little Petra to the Monastery and then hike back to car: about 8.8 miles, took us 2 hours each way
  2. Park at Little Petra, hike Little Petra to the Monastery and then through Petra to the entrance.  Then taxi back to Little Petra: about 7.7miles  
  3. Park at Petra Visitor’s Center, take a taxi to Little Petra, hike Little Petra to the Monastery and then hike through Petra to your car at the entrance: about 7.7 miles  
            We did the out and back version since we’d already done the main part of Petra the day before, but if you only have one day to spend, one of the other options could be better!

            Here’s the map we found helpful for this trail!  If it’s hard to see below, you can download it here: http://jordantrail.org/route-stages-maps/4-little-petra-to-petra/


We hope this post helps you plan an awesome hiking adventure in Petra!